Tuesday, 14 October 2008

CHANGE.....

I wanted a perfect ending.
Now I've learned, the hard way.

Some poems don't rhyme.
Some stories don't have
a clear beginning, middle, or an end.

Life is about - not knowing, having to change,
taking the moment and making the best of it
without knowing what's going to happen next.

Every human being wants a perfect ending...but life has its own twists and turns, we always think we are in command of the situation and we are the master of every situation in our life........Thats when the almighty decides to take up the reins of our life and steer it in a direction which we never even in our weirdest of thoughts, then we get into situations where you never know whats gonna happen next, you are always guessing, everything about your life makes you feel negative, you kind of become rigid and restless..........you are scared of the thought about not knowing what is happening and what will happen............probably everybody goes through such a phase and probably not.....but such phases in life do have a galvanising effect on a person, either the person comes out stronger and better equipped to face the problems in life or he is completely shattered.............I had a choice to make in life when I was in such a situation ...welll...to be true I was shattered it was like the end of the world for me........I could'nt handle the change...things I had  taken for granted and which I had thought were but obvious..were no where true...........the change in the situations had pushed me back to the wall...I was left pondering about what had gone wrong and could have gone right....I was distressed,desolate and hopeless.....but that was not taking me anywhere............then one fine day I decided  not to fight the change but accept it....accept what life throws at me....it was difficult..(it is difficult)....taking one day at a time.....biding my time...waiting to get over my past..(the problem is one can get over their past but can never forget...)......Now, as everyday passes I realize that there is no point fighting a lost cause...it is better to accept the winds of change and make the most of the time ....you have been granted by the almighty....if not for yourself....learn to live for others..who..care for you...........................

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